Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Impassive

Impassive is an adjective which means 'not feeling or showing emotions.'

As usual, I'll share some of my thoughts before discussing some stuffs about this Outfit Post.

I could say that it's hard to hide what you feel or to be impassive when you're the type of person that's used to expressing his/her emotions. But as I continue my journey as a person who needs to fit in the world she's moving, I realize that being impassive would be the best way to protect myself.

Sometimes, your emotions puts a big boundary on what your capabilities are. But when you feel no emotions, you'll learn to break down that big boundary and do things you think you can't. 

And sometimes, being emotionless protects you from being hurt or being judged. Our behaviors are affected by our emotions and most of the time, people tend to look on our behaviors than to our emotions. They only see what they want to see. They don't even care with what you feel.

Maybe, most of you won't agree with me when I say that it's better to be impassive. I chose to be impassive most of the time because I know that my emotions can be used against me. It's not that I don't feel any emotions, it's just that I don't like to show it, as much as I could. Because sometimes, people will misinterpret what you feel and you, yourself, will think that your emotions are questionable. It's not that I'm experiencing something right now, it's just that I see it, I saw how people fail because of showing their emotions. And maybe one of my readers will relate on this topic, I just want to share my thoughts about it and maybe he/she will somehow think about what I'm trying to imply.

I'm not saying that showing your emotions is bad. All I'm trying to imply is that, we should be careful in what we feel and showing it to others. Yes, of course, we can't hide it but we should learn how much we can show others what we feel. Being impassive would be the preventive measures from being hurt or being judge. We should be sure in our emotions before showing it off. If you're really sure, why not let the world know about it? Right?

Let's end the drama there.

This Outfit Post would be one of my favorite post because it's a part of the 'being feminine' stuff I'm working on. I'm wearing www.OASAP.com's Black Dress that I really love. In my previous post, I've said that Black Dress is a part of The Essentials that a girl should have in their closets. It's amazing how an accessory can change your whole look. Actually, I'm planning not to wear any accessories on this outfit because I want to pair the dress with sneakers. Y'know, the old hippy style. But then, I looked in the mirror and think that it's really dull. Then I check on some accessories and tried this oh-so-powerful necklace. And so surprised with the outcome. I look so girly that's why I wore heels that paired the color of my dress.

I'm thinking of putting on a blazer or kimono on this outfit because I'm quite not confident with my shoulders. But then, I think there's nothing to be not confident of, that's why I showed it off. I think I pulled it off. What do you think, Guys?













Love. Love. Love.
Monique Oloresisimo y Codilla


48 comments:

  1. I love it. It's very cute and it looks good on you.

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  2. Hello from Spain: thanks for your visit to my blog dedicated to Barbies. Fashion and beauty are some of my passions. I really like your style. Nice pictures. I already did a follower of your blog. Keep in touch

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  3. You're so lovely in this outfit, and surely not impassive with such a lovely smile :)
    Good night!

    xoxo
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  4. Cute dress :) M&MFASHIONBITES mmfashionbites.blogspot.gr

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  5. Lovely LBD! Thanks for stopping by and following me! Followed you back! xo
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  6. Great dress! I love your blog header! Would you like to follow each other on GFC & Bloglovin? Please let me know.

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  7. Great dress, the shape it's perfect for you!

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  8. Lovely combo. LBD is essential piece and it looks great with the necklace. :)
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  9. Loving the LBD!! You're gorgeous! Thank you for your comment on my blog. I'm following you now on GFC and already following you on Bloglovin. Please follow back.

    Louisa
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  10. Little black dresses are always good!
    love, Turn it inside out

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  11. Nice dress!
    xx

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  12. Such lovely dress!!!
    You look very pretty and chic! :D
    xxx
    Baci!
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  13. It looks great and that statement necklace goes perfectly with it!

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  14. What beautiful outfit dear.
    Kisses

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  15. I'm following you now back on GFC and Bloglovin! Looking forward to your next posts!

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  17. Love your dress Monique and that statement necklace really add an oomph to your outfit <3

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  18. How pretty
    I love your LBD!!
    I love your style and your blog.
    Would you like to follow each other? Please let me know.
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  19. Gorgeous black dress.. you look great :) You don't need to wear it with a blazer or kimono because you already look amazing with it.. very classy!

    Take care always, love Christine ~ xx
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  20. nice dress!
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  21. Have a nice day, Monique, you're always so pretty :)

    xoxo
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  22. loving the dress honey!
    xoxo

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  23. Beautiful black dress! you look great :) and also not showing emotions is probably something good when you are in work environments but with friends and family, showing emotions is what brings relationships together.
    XOXO

    Milu
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  25. Oh, you look so classy and elegant :)

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  26. Gorgeous LBD and shoes! Thank you for your comment on my blog. I'm following you now on Bloglovin and GFC. Please follow back.

    Louisa
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  27. the little black dress looks good on you !!!
    xoxo

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  28. Nice look, love the dress
    xx

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  29. Love this black dress on you! You look great in black :)

    xx,
    Marie

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  30. Thanks for checking out my blog, I followed you back on gfc and bloglovin. Keep in touch!
    Natalie

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  31. Love the black dresses!!if you like, we can follow us on GFC!! I waiting you on my blog ( Jeans Rotos blog ) I always come back!!!
    Kisses!!!

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  32. LOVE the dress, the cinching at the waist makes me think of a prolonged peplum shape, which is super flattering! ^_^
    xo Carmen

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  33. Beautiful :)

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  34. Very cute dress! Beautiful ♥

    Nicole
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